Today I started feeling stressed out because I knew I had so much to sort through in order to declutter the house. I said, when I started this blog that I wanted to give minimalism a try and I am pretty serious about it, even though I still have a lot of sentimental items. I was at a loss where to start, because although I have a lot of clutter or unnecessary items here, I am sure it's not as much as the average American home. Or is it...?
Anyway, I decided to sort through my underwear drawer first, because I had a lot of old socks, and torn pantyhose that I kept, thinking "I can wear that with boots, nobody will see the pilling on the side of this pantyhose" and so on. But every time I opened the drawer, it was hell getting everything back down to close it again.
I ended up throwing away
(into a donation bag) a lot of items I didn't wear because they were at the bottom of the drawer and were not easily accessible, or because they had pilled (OK in boots but not with a business suit and pumps), or simply because, well, I didn't like them anymore, like for instance my white tights. They have a tendency to look really transparent at the knee and really white at the ankle, so they would probably look better on somebody skinnier. I also donated perfectly new socks that I felt were a bit too tight for me.
The problem when decluttering your wardrobe is that you might have different activities for which the dress code changes. Three years ago, I was working as a freelancer in Paris, and had a lot of time off, so I had to wear "business" for work and could still wear nearly all my casual clothes for fun.
Then I moved to CT where I was a stay at home wife for a while - before I could start my client base - and wore only casual outfits.
Then I moved to Belgium where I work five days a week at a place where the dress code is business, so I really don't get to wear my casual clothes a lot. After I got here, I had to go and buy work clothes for at least a week's worth. It was very time consuming, because I didn't know the city well, and had no idea where to buy women's suits. Online wasn't an option because a lot of times, the cut isn't quite right, or it needs tailoring.
But I can't really let go of all my casual clothes for several reasons:
1) I like them and I don't want to have to buy them again later.
2) I don't know where I'll be in 2 years, I might need "a lot" of casual clothes again then.
3) I have a lot of vacation time, during which I still enjoy wearing my casual clothes.
4) I never wear casual clothes to work and vice versa (except for just a few pieces)
5) I can never wear the same piece twice because at the end of the day it smells bad: it therefore needs washing. I don't have a drier here, just a drying rack, so I need enough clothes to wear until the next load of laundry dries.
Sure, I could pare down some, and I am going to try to make it happen, but my other problem is: I get really cold and really hot within seconds, and that's always been a problem for me. Especially when you live in the city, if you're out a lot you can't enjoy the nice inside temperature.
So basically, when I see other minimalists with just 10 shirts and 3 pairs of pants and they own like, 2 or 3 sweaters, that's great, and I would wish to get to that result, but:
1) it's more difficult for girls than for guys (nobody notices if a man dresses the same two days in a row, unlike women, I think)
2) I sweat (incidentally I bike to work, but that's for another post), so I need to change clothes often, and I don't do a wash every 3 or 4 days, I wait longer.
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